Unlocking Ecstasy: Guide to Enhancing Sexual Pleasure

Sex techniques are the basics for ensuring a fulfilled, scintillating, and deeply intimate experience amongst partners. They're not limited to physical movements; they’re emotional, psychological, and sensory, adding depth of pleasure and connection. They encourage partners to adjust to each other’s needs and wants, making it a more mutually rewarding experience.

Communication is another key component of sex techniques. Talking about likes, dislikes, limits and fantasies helps both partners know what to expect from one another, helping foster safety and trust.

Finding opportunities for playfulness in sex techniques cannot be emphasized enough. Being humorous and exploratory about intimacy helps both partners to become less uptight and relish the experience.

Flat Doggy Style

A flatter version of the classic doggy style sex position, the flat doggy style is an intimate version of the pose that gives you lots of depth combined with deep connection. In this position, the receiving partner lies flat on their stomach, while the penetrating partner lies on top of them, closely aligning their bodies. Since the bodies also line up, you can penetrate further inside one another and enjoy a more physical and intimate play. This position promotes intimacy because it allows kissing, whispering, and caressing while in action. The flat angle further allows it to help stimulate the G-spot or prostate, which can be great for the receiving partner.

Why it’s great: Flat doggy style is great because it balances the physical intensity of doggy style with a more emotionally close position like missionary so you can feel both passion and tenderness at once. It is also a flexible position that can be tweaked based on individual comfort levels and preferences, which is why many couples have it this particular position as their go-to.

Scoop Me Up

The Scoop Me Up sex position is a good one for comfort and intimacy (and on-the-go sex). In this position, the receiving partner lies on their back with their hips slightly elevated, and the penetrating partner sits on their knees or between their legs, with the receiving partner’s hips or thighs cradling their body. This softer angle enables deep, controlled penetration while allowing the penetrating partner easy access to stimulate other erogenous zones, including the clitoris, nipples, or inner thighs.

Why it's good: I think the Scoop Me Up is particularly good because it allows for intimacy and closeness (since partners can make eye contact, share kisses, or hold hands throughout the act). It's also less sloppy, so it's better for slower, more sensual sessions where the focus is on shared intimacy and mutual pleasure. And the slightly raised hips can help increase arousal.

Sex techniques explore the nuances of intimacy and ways to increase pleasure and intensity between partners. Other intimacy may include moving together, mindfully moving together, synchronizing breath with breath, playing games, and flowing using BDSM products.

This may be exercises such as tantric techniques, where energy flow and prolonged eye contact take priority over physical connection and emotional intimacy.