Unlock mind-blowing pleasure: sex techniques in your intimacy

Sex techniques are essential in building intimate relationships to make them more pleasurable and keep the spark alive. It is not only about physical movements or positions; it incorporates emotional connection, communication, and creativity. But when you learn a bunch of different techniques, you can take sex to the next level, producing heat and heart-pounding closeness. Whether on your own or with a partner, gaining insight into new approaches can open doors to pleasure and build trust in intimate relationships.

The Kinky Missionary

Need an excuse to pull out your under-the-mattress restraint sets or headboard-friendly cuffs or buy some? Consider this position. The Kinky Missionary is regular missionary sex plus a little bondage. Here, you will tie your partner to the bed and go for missionary as normal. 

Why It’s Great: As far as BDSM-beginner positions go, this one should be one of the first ones you try out when breaking out the restraints. The face-to-face setup can create a sense of safety. And the position allows you to read non-verbal facial cues—as well as verbal ones—as to what really pleases your partner.

More seasoned kink stars will be pleased to learn there are plenty of ways to explore power play in this arrangement. Blindfolds, dirty talk, and sensation play can all help heighten the agreed-upon power dynamic. So, spend some time talking together about what might feel best and don’t be afraid to troubleshoot and modify as you go, especially if it’s your first time bringing this kind of play into your sex life!

Standing Room Only

If you and your partner keep falling into the same old positions over and over, standing sex positions can be a fiery way to mix it up. To really up the ante, add a set of cuffs like in this position. It seems natural that the partner being cuffed would also be the partner getting cuffed, though not a necessity! Just ensure the leg of the partner receiving can be adjusted as it is slung over the waist, hip, or thigh; it is a great starting point, but the cocked partner should support to gain an angle that is optimum.

Why It’s Great: This bondage move is so easy for beginners; it feels like you just walked into a movie set for an X-rated film. The angle change plus the cuffs just hit all the right buttons! Just remember to check in and make sure that restraints aren’t too tight, and switch things up when and if your cuffed partner gets tired (it happens!). Also: A good pair of over-the-door cuffs (these from Unbound are comfortable and cute!) is going to be your best friend here.

Explore new realities in the art of connection with these proven methods, and reignite your passion.