Sex Techniques: A Pleasant and Satisfying Sexual Experience

Sex is not just sexual activity; it is a mental, emotional, and physical connection that enriches two individuals. A healthy sexual life can make a very big difference in the quality of our relationship. Through better sexual techniques, not only the endorphins released from the sexual act but also the increased interaction can make you confident and in harmony with your partner.

In this we are going to be talking about sex technique and other such things that can make your sex life fulfilling and exciting!

 What is sex technology?

Sex technology is the art and science of improving sex. It is what makes sex more pleasurable, more thrilling, and more comfortable. It requires communication, technical proficiency, self-awareness, and creativity.

Plus, the kinds of sex we're talking about here are such pleasurable sexual formations that there's really no good reason why you shouldn't try it out with different kinds of sex. And not just because trying new sex positions can ignite the fire of a sex life that will stay hot for months and potentially years (oh, and some new sex toys can help rekindle that heat, too). There are so many ways to do it, and it only takes being in one place for someone to rekindle some good conversations about what feels good. (And if you just want to try something different!)

Mix up the hottest sex moves with sex toys to change things up in the bedroom, either alone or with a partner or two.

Try New Sexual Positions

Hands Behind Ankles

Now we’re getting into the kinks portion of our list. Hands behind ankles is a position that involves a comfy pair of cuffs, some flexibility, and some pre-game discussion. Ensure that the partner who’s being cuffed is comfortable, know the safe words (the red, yellow, green stoplight system works like a charm, but you stopping when you hear “stop” is always a great place to start), and some comfortable aftercare tips, Make a plan.

Now on to the position: As with the yoga meets hogtie move (again, unless you can find cuffs that fit the ankles, I suppose), you’ll want the penetrated/cuffed partner to lie face down, with their knees bent. To cuff them, reach behind their legs to place the cuffs around the wrists so that they sit behind their ankles. With a little careful maneuvering, wedge the penetrating partner between the receiving partner’s back and ankles. (Or, if in doubt, a toy!)

Why it’s great: If bondage is your bag, then you know how hot a position like this can get. The receiving partner is a special target, which creates erotic trust, and a release from control. And just opening and spreading the penetrated partner's hips brings a little extra blood into the pelvis, making the experience very arousing.

Queening in Bondage

You might know this position by a slightly less SFW name— “face sitting”—but queening in bondage is when one partner gets oral stimulation while seated on or above their partner’s mouth. Your weight can be largely supported by your knees and thighs, so don’t get too stressed about “crushing” your partner—just ensure that they’re at ease letting you know how much pressure is okay with them while you’re on top!

Why It’s Great: There’s something so delicious about the power switch of this position, and receiving partners will enjoy having all the control over pace and pressure. Incorporating restraint play to position is just another way to ramp up the feeling and intensity of the scene or sexual encounter, allowing the receiving partner to really own the pose’s power (as seen here) or providing an equally sexy inversion if you flip roles.